I just recieved an email full of powerful reminders of how lucky and blessed we are to live in this country of such wealth and opportunity. I am reminded of how many times during the day I bemoan my fate, how hard a struggle it is, and to stop-take a look around me and switch my thinking back into a positive track.
I am sure you have heard many times that you need to find your “why”, that when you find it it is that which will keep you going when times get tough and things get hard. That is good advice and I have even taught it myself to coaching clients.
There is something about that however that I have come to realize-and it is this: that most often those why’s are all about us. Me, mine-and what makes me happy. My little personal why.
I do not believe anymore that a personal why is strong enough to take us to the place where we can really become all we can possibly be, to reach our full potential as human beings- to live from our true power and greatness, because it is not really about me and mine- it is about us, and ours. It is about enough food, clothing and shelter for everyone- not just me. Enough clean air and water for the whole planet, not just my city or town, my country.
We are truly one race on this little planet, and what happens on the other side of the globe does not stay contained over there- it affects me whether I know it or not. It affects me physically, emotionally and spiritually. And it affects you- and your family and your city or town and your country.
Am I saying self-sacrifice, go without- for the greater good? No, not at all. That is an old concept that needs to be eliminated from peoples belief systems altogether. Enlightened wealth can do more good for this planet at this moment in history than anything else-as money and influence really do make the world go around, and people stop and listen.
What I am saying is to find a why that is greater than just you, that drives you to reach beyond what you ever would just for yourself, that keeps you inspired and fills your heart and becomes greater than your fear- and strive to leave a legacy in this world, not because you just want fame and fortune-but because of what you can do from a position of fame and fortune.
Do you remember the old Starfish story that has been told in every seminar and book for the last 20 years? Think of it as this- one person can make a difference, but what if that child who, all alone on the beach throwing starfish back in, had seen a greater vision, and had gone running to get all of her friends to help, or was able to call up a TV station to come down and do a story of someone doing good, and call on the viewers to come down and help save the starfish- what difference would it have made then?
My challenge to you today is to sit down and write out your big “why” for yourself, what drives you to do what you do, then see how you can expand that out to include others beynd yourself and family, expand it out to include the whole world and see if anything changes for you, if a new vison unfolds in your heart and your mind- and then have the courage, the faith and the belief to act on it.
I used to teach my firewalk seminars simply because I enjoyed it, it was for me- but now- it is so I can help as many people as possible to find their big dream, their big why, their passion and their purpose, access their power and by walking the fire, use it as a tool to propel themsleves into the greatness that lies within each and every one of us- to “awaken the giant” as Tony Robbins put it.
Together we really can change the world.